Praying in Tongues Privately

Praying in tongues privately opens a direct channel of communication with God that transcends our human understanding. This supernatural gift allows believers to pray beyond their natural limitations, accessing a pure, heavenly language that builds faith and deepens their relationship with God.

Whether you're new to this spiritual practice, also called praying in the Spirit, or seeking to enhance your prayer life, this comprehensive guide will help you understand and effectively utilize this divine gift for personal edification and spiritual growth.

Praying in Tongues Privately: A Divine Connection Beyond Words

Part 1 of 3 by Don Bell | ⏱️ 9 minute read

The gift of praying in tongues allows believers to edify themselves by strengthening and building their faith. "Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit" (Ephesians 6:18) differs from praying in a known language since it bypasses our natural mind with its natural limitations.

Whenever we pray audibly in a known language, the prayer is rooted in our understanding, and both we and those who hear us understand the prayer's content. However, when we pray audibly in tongues, our spirit prays in an unknown language, bypassing our natural mind, and neither we nor those who hear us can understand our prayer.

Paul teaches, "For he who speaks in a tongue does not speak to men but to God, for no one understands him; however, in the spirit he speaks mysteries" (1 Corinthians 14:2).

Our prayer communication with God takes place in a pure, heavenly language, free from doubts, human manipulation, cultural biases, and demonic interference. Consider tongues as an Earth-to-Heaven direct-line to God.

Now that we understand the foundation of praying in tongues privately, let's explore the importance of maintaining balance between spiritual and natural prayer.

Balancing Natural and Spiritual Prayer

Paul says, "For if I pray in a tongue, my spirit prays, but my understanding is unfruitful. What is the conclusion then? I will pray with the spirit, and I will also pray with the understanding. I will sing with the spirit, and I will also sing with the understanding" (1 Corinthians 14:14–15).

When praying in private, engage both your mind AND your spirit by using your known language as well as tongues. A balance between the two prayer expressions is vital for effective prayer and a wholesome prayer life.

For example, begin by praying for a need in your known language. As you find yourself running short of words, switch to praying in tongues until you sense a release. The more you pray in the natural AND in the Spirit, the more your prayer life will grow and improve.

Similarly, begin singing a hymn or familiar chorus and then switch to singing in an unknown tongue, using the familiar tune. Eventually, ask the Holy Spirit to give you both the tongue and the tune.

Praying and singing in tongues combined with praying and singing in the natural will add depth to your spiritual life by boosting your faith along with your inner peace. Adopt this form of prayer for a more intimate connection with Father God.

Building upon these practical steps, we'll now explore the vital role of fervency in prayer.

The Power of Fervent Faith-Filled Prayer

James says, "The prayer of faith will save the sick, and the Lord will raise him up. … The effective, FERVENT prayer of a righteous man avails much" (James 5:15–16, emphasis added).

The Greek word ἐνεργέω (energeō), often translated as "fervent," implies that our prayers should be charged with "energy" when delivered, balancing passion and faith. According to James, it's a motivated prayer of faith that's effective and always produces a result.

We must put effort into our prayers to receive the desired results. Fervent prayers require fervency! Pray from your innermost being — your spirit, not just from your intellect.

Balancing Emotions in Prayer

While it is true that our prayers should be based on faith, not feelings, it doesn't mean we should not feel anything when praying. Lack of emotion can leave room for doubt, leading to uninspired, unanswered prayers.

After all, God created us with emotions, and when properly controlled, they serve us well. However, we must never allow our emotions to rule over us. Self-control is one of the nine fruits of the Spirit.

Pray trusting in God, not in your emotions. Never allow your feelings to dictate your prayer life. When praying in tongues, pray clearly in a normal voice with fervency and conviction, just as you would in a known language.

Maintaining Spiritual Fervency in Prayer

While the initial excitement of speaking in tongues may settle over time, leaving you feeling somewhat dry and empty, you can maintain a vibrant prayer life by regularly engaging in tongues as a way to build up your faith.

This consistent practice will empower your prayers and bring increased confidence when ministering to others. Never forget that it's God who’s doing the work; it's not you! Scripture confirms, "‘[It's] not by might nor by power, but by My Spirit,’ says the Lord of hosts" (Zachariah 4:6).

You are God’s chosen vessel — a conduit for the flow of His anointing. Simply pray and allow His anointing to flow out to touch lives!

Making Tongues Part of Your Daily Routine

The Holy Spirit desires us to be led by Him, for us to experience greater freedom in our prayer life. The ability to pray in tongues is an important component of this.

The Challenge of Continuous Prayer

Paul urges, "Stand therefore, … praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, being watchful to this end with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints" (Ephesians 6:14,18).

The Greek word δέησις (deēsis) translated as supplication simply means praying for a need or request.

But, how can we be "praying always" for a need? Not only is it difficult to keep our minds focused, we eventually run out of words and end up repeating ourselves.

Thankfully, God in His mercy understands our human limitations, so He gave us the gift of tongues to help us compensate. The gift of speaking in tongues allows believers to pray without repetitive phrasing despite our human frailties.

Practical Integration of Tongues

The Holy Spirit desires to lead us into greater freedom in our prayer life. Here's how to integrate tongues into your daily routine:

• During Regular Activities:
  - While preparing meals
  - During your commute
  - During exercise
  - While doing household chores
  - Before falling asleep
• Create Prayer Triggers:
  - When you wake up
  - Before meals
  - During breaks
  - At specific times you set
  - When facing challenges
  - Before you sleep
• Maintain Spiritual Awareness:
  - Respond to Holy Spirit's promptings
  - Stay sensitive to prayer opportunities
  - Remember you can pray silently when needed
  - Keep your spirit attuned to God throughout the day
  

This integration allows for "praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit" (Ephesians 6:14,18) without the limitations of our natural mind or the need for specific settings.

How to Increase Prayer Power

To increase your prayer power, consider these essential practices:

1. Set aside dedicated time daily for praying in tongues:
   - Start with 15 to 30 minutes
   - Gradually increase duration as led by the Spirit
   - Choose a consistent time that works best for you
   
2. Build your faith systematically:
   - Begin each session with thanksgiving
   - Focus on God's faithfulness and promises
   - Allow the Holy Spirit to guide your prayer
   
3. Maintain consistency in your practice:
   - Create a prayer journal to track your journey
   - Note any spiritual insights received
   - Document answers to prayers
   

This systematic approach will build up your most holy faith (Jude 1:20), resulting in more effective prayers when others request your intercession.

While establishing a consistent prayer routine is essential, equally important is developing the art of listening to God.

The Art of Speaking and Listening to God

Have you ever noticed that people who have the tendency to talk a lot rarely listen to what you have to say? As you develop your prayer life, remember that God already knows your needs before you even speak (Matthew 6:8).

Your Father in Heaven desires a genuine relationship more than lengthy petitions. Take time simply to rest in His presence, allowing space for both speaking and listening.

King Solomon wisely urged, "Do not be rash with your mouth, and let not your heart utter anything hastily before God. For God is in heaven, and you on earth; therefore let your words be few" (Ecclesiastes 5:2).

So, instead of immediately voicing your needs in prayer, take a few moments to embrace silence. Silence before God is a form of prayer! God asks of us, "'Be still, and know that I am God …'" (Psalms 46:10).

The Psalmist writes, "Wait on the LORD; be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart; wait, I say, on the LORD!" (Psalms 27:14).

As we learn to be still before God, we must also develop our ability to recognize His voice.

Recognizing God's Voice in Prayer

Always be open to hearing God's voice and guidance, whether it comes as a thought, an image in your mind's eye, a Scripture passage, or a gentle prompting. Allow God the freedom to speak with you in whatever way He chooses.

Avoid preconceived notions of what YOU think God is wanting to communicate, as this can hinder your ability to clearly hear from Him. Most importantly, HEAR Him!

Jesus says, "'My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me'" (John 10:27).

Praying in Public Settings: A Discreet Approach

In public settings, it's important to maintain order and respect for others by praying quietly in tongues. Remember, your prayer can be effective, whether spoken aloud or whispered quietly under your breath.

Silent Prayer in Tongues

Did you know that silent prayer in tongues is possible, even in public places? Scripture says, "'The Lord searches all hearts and understands all the intent of the thoughts'" (1 Chronicles 28:9). God understands our thoughts completely.

You can pray silently by focusing on the spiritual language that the Holy Spirit provides in your mind. This form of prayer isn't about thinking logically, but about connecting spiritually with God, and you can practice it anywhere and anytime you choose.

When you pray silently in tongues, you can communicate with the Holy Spirit without speaking out loud. No one around you will know you are praying, as you won't move your lips or make any sound.

Discover More in This 3-Part Series

As we continue this journey, you'll discover how praying in tongues privately can transform your prayer life, bringing breakthrough in areas like intercession, inner healing, spiritual warfare, and divine revelation. Join me as we delve deeper into the power and purpose of this vital spiritual gift.

Part 2: Praying in the Holy Spirit.

Part 3: Praying in Tongues for Healing.

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About the Author

Don Bell is the creator of the Kingdom Anointing website, and a dedicated follower of Jesus Christ. He shares insights from his spiritual journey to encourage ordinary believers to seek God's Kingdom and lead extraordinary lives in the Holy Spirit.

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