Part 1 of 2 by Don Bell | ⏱️ 9 minute read
Praying in tongues privately opens a direct channel of communication with God that transcends our human understanding. This supernatural gift allows believers to pray beyond their natural limitations, accessing a pure, heavenly language that builds faith and deepens their relationship with God.
This comprehensive guide explores the basic principles and biblical foundations of praying in unknown tongues. We'll cover everything from the benefits of this gift of the Spirit to its practical application in daily life for edification, intercession, and spiritual growth.
Pray Privately in Tongues and Transform Your Prayer LifePraying in tongues differs greatly from praying in your known language. Paul says, "For he who speaks in a tongue does not speak to men but to God, for no one understands him; however, in the spirit he speaks mysteries" (1 Corinthians 14:2).
Whenever we pray audibly in a known language, the prayer is rooted in our understanding, and both we and those who hear us understand the prayer's content. However, when we pray audibly in tongues, our spirit prays in unknown languages, bypassing our mind with its natural limitations, and neither we nor those who hear us can understand our prayer.
As Paul says, "If I pray in a tongue, my spirit prays, but my understanding is unfruitful" (1 Corinthians 12:14). This ensures our prayer communication with God is pure and understood only by Him. It's private and free from doubts, human manipulation, cultural biases, and demonic interference. Consider tongues as an Earth-to-Heaven direct-line to God.
Are you longing for a deeper, more intimate connection with God? Do you desire to see your prayers answered and experience spiritual breakthroughs in your life? Make use of the powerful practice of praying in the Holy Spirit.
Prayer inspired by the Holy Spirit can be beneficial for edification, intercession, overcoming, revelation, engaging in spiritual warfare, and offering heartfelt praises to God. It helps overcome weaknesses, brings emotional healing, strengthens your faith, and fosters greater intimacy with God.
Paul says, "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God" (Philippians 4:6).
We can pray in tongues at will for needs and prayer requests, not just for ourselves but also for others. And, we can always expect results because we are praying in perfect alignment with God's will.
Believing is the key to receiving what you ask for in prayer, and praying in tongues helps build up your faith to believe that God can answer your prayer and overcome any situation.
Paul says, "For if I pray in a tongue, my spirit prays, but my understanding is unfruitful. What is the conclusion then? I will pray with the spirit, and I will also pray with the understanding. I will sing with the spirit, and I will also sing with the understanding" (1 Corinthians 14:14–15).
When praying in private, engage both your mind AND your spirit by using your known language as well as tongues. A balance between the two prayer expressions is vital for effective prayer and a wholesome prayer life.
For example, begin by praying for a need in your known language. As you find yourself running short of words, switch to praying in tongues until you sense a release. The more you pray in the natural AND in the Spirit, the more your prayer life will grow and improve.
Similarly, begin singing a hymn or familiar chorus and then switch to singing in an unknown tongue, using the familiar tune. Eventually, ask the Holy Spirit to give you both the tongue and the tune.
Praying and singing in tongues combined with praying and singing in the natural will add depth to your spiritual life by boosting your faith along with your inner peace. Adopt this form of prayer for a more intimate connection with Father God.
Building upon these practical steps, we'll now explore the vital role of fervency in prayer.
James says, "The prayer of faith will save the sick, and the Lord will raise him up. … The effective, FERVENT prayer of a righteous man avails much" (James 5:15–16, emphasis added).
The Greek word ἐνεργέω (energeō), often translated as "fervent," implies that our prayers should be charged with "energy" when delivered, balancing passion and faith. According to James, it's a motivated prayer of faith that's effective and always produces a result.
We must put effort into our prayers to receive the desired results. Fervent prayers require fervency! Pray from your innermost being — your spirit, not just from your intellect.
While it is true that our prayers should be based on faith, not feelings, it doesn't mean we should not feel anything when praying. Lack of emotion can leave room for doubt, leading to uninspired, unanswered prayers.
After all, God created us with emotions, and when properly controlled, they serve us well. However, we must never allow our emotions to rule over us. Self-control is one of the nine fruits of the Spirit.
Pray trusting in God, not in your emotions. Never allow your feelings to dictate your prayer life. When praying in tongues, pray clearly in a normal voice with fervency and conviction, just as you would in a known language.
The Holy Spirit desires us to be led by Him, for us to experience greater freedom in our prayer life. The ability to pray in tongues is an important component of this.
Paul urges, "Stand therefore, … praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, being watchful to this end with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints" (Ephesians 6:14,18). Using the Greek word δέησις (deēsis), Paul urges us to pray always with supplication (specific requests) in the Spirit.
But, how can we be "praying always" for needs? Not only is it difficult to keep our minds focused, we eventually run out of words and end up repeating ourselves.
Thankfully, God in His mercy understands our human limitations, so He gave us the gift of tongues to help us compensate. The gift of speaking in tongues allows believers to pray anytime and anywhere without repetitive phrasing despite our human frailties.
The Holy Spirit desires to lead us into greater freedom in our prayer life. Here's how to integrate tongues into your daily routine:
This integration allows for "praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit" (Ephesians 6:14,18) without the limitations of our natural mind or the need for specific settings.
To increase your prayer power, consider these essential practices:
This systematic approach will build up your most holy faith (Jude 1:20), resulting in more effective prayers when others request your intercession.
While establishing a consistent prayer routine is essential, equally important is developing the art of listening to God.
While the initial excitement of speaking in tongues may settle over time, leaving you feeling somewhat dry and empty, you can maintain a vibrant prayer life by regularly engaging in tongues as a way to build up your faith.
This consistent practice will empower your prayers and bring increased confidence when ministering to others. Never forget that it's God who’s doing the work; it's not you! Scripture confirms, "‘[It's] not by might nor by power, but by My Spirit,’ says the Lord of hosts" (Zachariah 4:6).
You are God’s chosen vessel — a conduit for the flow of His anointing. Simply pray and allow His anointing to flow out to touch lives!
Have you ever noticed that people who have the tendency to talk a lot rarely listen to what you have to say? As you develop your prayer life, remember that God already knows your needs before you even speak (Matthew 6:8).
Your Father in Heaven desires a genuine relationship more than lengthy petitions. Take time simply to rest in His presence, allowing space for both speaking and listening.
King Solomon wisely urged, "Do not be rash with your mouth, and let not your heart utter anything hastily before God. For God is in heaven, and you on earth; therefore let your words be few" (Ecclesiastes 5:2).
So, instead of immediately voicing your needs in prayer, take a few moments to embrace silence. Silence before God is a form of prayer! God asks of us, "'Be still, and know that I am God …'" (Psalms 46:10).
The Psalmist writes, "Wait on the LORD; be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart; wait, I say, on the LORD!" (Psalms 27:14).
As we learn to be still before God, we must also develop our ability to recognize His voice.
Always be open to hearing God's voice and guidance, whether it comes as a thought, an image in your mind's eye, a Scripture passage, or a gentle prompting. Allow God the freedom to speak with you in whatever way He chooses.
Avoid preconceived notions of what YOU think God is wanting to communicate, as this can hinder your ability to clearly hear from Him. Most importantly, HEAR Him!
Jesus says, "'My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me'" (John 10:27).
In public settings, it's important to maintain order and respect for others by praying quietly in tongues. Remember, your prayer can be effective, whether spoken aloud or whispered quietly under your breath.
While serving as a chalice administrator at our local Anglican Church, I discovered a beautiful way to maintain spiritual connection during the Communion services. When unfamiliar with the offertory hymn, I would quietly sing in tongues near the altar while those standing nearby remained unaware.
Did you know that silent prayer in tongues is possible, even in public places? Scripture says, "'The Lord searches all hearts and understands all the intent of the thoughts'" (1 Chronicles 28:9). God understands our thoughts completely.
You can pray silently by focusing on the prayer language that the Holy Spirit speaks in your mind. This form of prayer isn't about thinking logically, but about connecting spiritually with God, and you can practice it anywhere and anytime you choose.
Group settings once presented challenges for me, but I found a powerful solution through silent prayer in tongues. This practice helps me experience God's presence tangibly, and any anxiety fades as I become aware that God is with me saying, "'Be strong and of good courage, do not fear nor be afraid of them; for the Lord your God, He is the One who goes with you'" (Deuteronomy 31:6).
When you pray silently in tongues, you can communicate with God without speaking out loud. No one around you will know you are praying, as you won't move your lips or make any sound.
Praying in the Holy Spirit is a practice that connects you to God's transformative power and enables you to experience His perfect will for your life.
Paul urges, "Rejoice always, PRAY WITHOUT CEASING, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you" (1 Thessalonians 5:16–18, emphasis added).
"I have purposed today to pray more in the Holy Spirit to draw closer to God and to strengthen me in prayers… Thank you for your comprehensive and practical application of this beautiful gift." —J., Canada
Now that you've learned the practical aspects of praying in the Holy Spirit, you're ready to discover one of its most powerful applications.
Let's take a deeper dive and explore Praying in Tongues for Healing to discover how this supernatural gift can be specifically applied for physical, emotional, and spiritual restoration.

Don Bell is the creator of the Kingdom Anointing website, and a dedicated follower of Jesus Christ. He shares insights from his spiritual journey to encourage ordinary believers to seek God's Kingdom and lead extraordinary lives in the Holy Spirit.
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